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"Why Men Fall in Love"


By Elaine M.D., a Professional Dating and Relationship Coach & Bestselling Author


Falling in love is associated with certain chemical reactions occurring in the brain. This is why we often refer to the first signs of love and attraction as “chemistry”.

While the causes of Chemistry and romantic love are puzzling to most people, scientific research as well as multiple studies of the human brain clearly demonstrate that a man can be attracted to a woman, date her, and even have sex with her regularly without ever falling in love with her


This explains why some men stay in a relationship for weeks, months and even years and never take it to the next level.


Without triggering certain chemical reactions in the brain, the centers of love will never be activated, no matter how long the relationship is, or how long you date a man.


A man may even think logically that the woman he is with meets all if the criteria he has for a girlfriend or a wife, even try to develop deep feelings for her, and still not succeed at developing feelings of love for her.


So, why would a man, who isn’t in love with a woman date her and even try to have a relationship with her?


The short answer is, a man can be sexually attracted to a woman, or think that she meets all of his criteria, hoping that one day he will wake up submerged into the feeling of love and devotion for her. Yet, it never happens.


Read on to discover the results of certain scientific studies which may shock you but will give you the answers to your most burning questions.

Why Men Can Date You For Months

& Never Fall in Love With You


Scientists have discovered that the process of falling in love is completely different from the sex drive. The areas of the brain engaged in the process of romantic love are different from those engaged when the sex drive is activated.


Scientists and brain research professionals consider love to be primarily a motivation system. The centers of romantic love are located near the reward centers of the brain.


Romantic love, according to human brain scientists, fuels the drive to acquire a particular need to survive, thus romantic love is associated with the survival instinct.


If you’ve ever heard someone say “I need you in my life” or “I can’t live without you”, you now know that the person saying this, provided he is honest about his feelings, truly feels this way at the moment he says these words. This explains why there have been reported so many occurrences of rejected lovers committing suicide, while suitors whose sexual advances are rejected by their targets simply move onto the next target.


Reality is that we don’t need another person to survive; however, our brain is playing tricks on us making us feel as if our survival depends on being with our romantic love interest.


Purely sexual attraction is simply a biological drive to reproduce. A man can direct sexual attraction toward any woman who is pretty enough for his taste. Romantic love, however, while making sex more enjoyable, does not require a sexual act to be sustained.


And yet, romantic love, once developed, is practically impossible to control. Like thirst, which is another motivation system, there aren’t any techniques a person who is in love with another may employ to stop feeling in love on purpose.


This is good news for you, however, because even though we are not able to control who we fall in love with, once we acquire the knowledge of what makes people fall in love in general, we can take actions which will trigger the feeling of love in others and motivate them to fall in love with us.


What that means for YOU is that knowing what makes a man fall in love you can you can use this knowledge on your man to trigger and channel the process of falling in love with you! But don’t worry, you won’t have to employ dishonest or deceptive tactics, because you will simply need to make your man feel a certain way, and he will fall in love with you!


Keep reading to find out what you can do to make a man fall in love with you!



What Makes a Man Fall In Love


loveAs we’ve discussed, the chemical reactions occurring in your brain cannot be controlled by you; however, you, and other people can control and can even predict chemical reactions that will occur in your brain in response to certain external stimuli.


Most people don’t know that. We don’t typically think in terms of chemical reactions. We typically think in terms of direct actions others will take in response to our actions.


Have you ever been afraid to tell your boss you made a mistake preparing an important document? If so, perhaps you didn’t tell your boss about your error because you could predict, with a level of certainty, that his reaction would be negative.


You knew he would be upset at you. You knew he would be angry at you. You didn’t want negative reactions directed to you, and you didn’t want any potential negative consequences for you. So you didn’t tell him. Nothing’s wrong with how you felt. It is understandable.


But why would your boss be upset at you at all? Possibly it is because your mistake could affect his own job performance. Your failure would be his failure, and he would be fearful of what the consequences could be for him. He could be angry at you for making him a failure, and for threatening his job security.


See, our actions, and our words deeply affect how others feel about us. Going back to what I said earlier on this page, the love/reward centers of another person’s brain can be triggered into action by what you say and by how you say it.


You can say certain words to make a person feel frightened, sad, insecure, jealous, envious, etc.
You can also say certain words that will make someone else feel amazing


When you say the right words to someone, the reward centers of the brain are activated. He more often you say the right words, the more frequently the person who those words are directed at will want to be around you.


This is simply because the reward centers are activated, and certain chemical reactions occurring in the brain that make the person feel good.


Love is all about how a man feels about you - how he feels when he is with you, and when you two are apart.


Men fall in love with the way you make him feel regardless of your beauty, your wealth or the car you drive. Men don’t care about any of that. All they care about is how they feel when they are with you, and how they feel even when they are apart from you but know you are in their lives.


When you make a man feel this certain way that no other woman makes him feel, he will be devoted to you forever! Nothing else will matter to him. He can be surrounded by supermodels, and yet, will only have the eyes for you!



Here is How to Make a Man Fall In Love


If your man isn’t in love with you yet you need to start with giving him positive reinforcement in small doses and trigger the reward centers in his brain.


This will jump-start chemical reactions in his brain responsible for developing the feeling of falling in love with you.


When a man begins falling in love he will feel deep and intense surges of love toward you at certain moments, specifically, he will feel those surges of love at the moments you say certain words to reinforce, encourage and promote the development of these feelings.


There will also be times, when he will feel deep level respect for you when you say certain other things. You need to stand your ground, without being mean or controlling.


You need to make sure that you aren’t being a man-pleaser or a pushover, and that you alternate the love-triggering words and phrases with respect-triggering words and phrases.


A man cannot love a woman he doesn’t respect, but he can respect a woman and not love her. So, the tricky part is to use both the love triggering words and the respect triggering words and phrases.


There will also be times when your man will feel disconnected from you completely. And that’s ok, because at other times he will feel deep connection to you when you use the love and respect techniques. So, if you are using enough love and respect triggering techniques, then the moments of feeling disconnected will be few and far between. Just because your man feels disconnected from you at one point doesn’t mean that his overall feeling about you will change as long as you keep the good feelings coming.


The more frequent the positive moments are, the more he feels that he is in love with you. The more intense a man’s feelings when you say certain words, the more in love he’ll be with you overall.


The moments at which he feels the most in love are powerful love triggers and love promoters. In those moments he will feel absolutely convinced that you are the one for him. He will feel that he’s never loved any other woman the way he loves you.


How to Trigger Powerful Surges of Love In Your Man’s Brain


The good thing is that you can create those moments on a whim. The more of those moments you create, the more frequent your man will experience surges of love toward you, and the more intense his love for you will grow.


If you are with a man right now, and are trying to make him fall in love with you; or if you are just dating a man and want to take it to the next level; or if you are single and looking to meet a man for a relationship, you will find the techniques and strategies I am going to teach you unbelievably effective.


If you are sleeping with a man who doesn’t want to commit to a serious relationship or marriage, or if you feel that your relationship is nearing its end and you want to save it, you will need these techniques.


I will teach you exactly what to say, how to say it, and when to say it to make a man of your choice fall deeply in love with you by triggering the love triggers in his brain through words.


Once you learn these techniques, you will become the only woman who is able to make him feel this way. Very soon he won’t be able to imagine his life without you.


He will be addicted to you like a junkie is addicted to a powerful drug. The best thing about it is that since no other woman knows how to make him feel this way, he will never be able to find a “replacement” for you. You will become precious to him and he will not want to jeopardize your relationship by dating other women, by failing to commit to you as soon as possible, or by mistreating you.


And, you will be simply using human nature and the man’s biological makeup to make your man give you the love you so rightly deserve!



When To Use These Techniques


You can use the techniques and step-by-step strategies I am about to teach you when:


You want to make a man attracted to you on a deep emotional level and even addicted to you


You want to make a man desire to be with you as much as he can and as long as you want him around


You want to make a man see you as The One and Only


You want to make a man realize he loves you deeply


You want to make a man realize he simply can’t bear to be without you in his life


You want to make a man move the relationship to the next level


You want to become exclusive with a man


You want to make a man you are casually dating see you as a girlfriend potential and eventually ask you to be his girlfriend


You want to become his girlfriend officially with the official girlfriend status recognition from all of his friends and family


You want to make your relationship better


You want to revive a relationship that’s going nowhere or is nearing its end


You want to prevent a breakup or make your ex fall in love with you all over again and keep it that way


You want your boyfriend to see you as the one he wants to marry


You want your boyfriend to propose to you and make it official



What These Techniques Are All About


The techniques I will teach you will allow you to use plain and simple COMMUNICATION to make a man fall in love with you. It sounds very easy to do, but the effect is unbelievably powerful.


When you implement these techniques, every time you use one of them, you will trigger powerful love-inducing processes in your man’s brain, which will then work for you while you are together and even in your absence. And it works similar to hypnosis or brain programming, except no one is going to be put into trance!


When you think about what LOVE really is, it is a deep never-ending emotional desire to be with someone and to have that person in your life. The step-by-step communication strategies I am going to teach you will affect your man’s feelings for you and make his love for you grow by affecting the love centers in your man’s brain. You will simply say the right words at the same time, and let his mind do the work for you!


And the best thing is that your man will be grateful to you for saying those things! He will FEEL that finally he has found The One who makes him feel never-ending powerful feelings of love, devotion and commitment!



What Will Happen


Your man will start thinking about you throughout the day more and more, fantasizing about being with you, and taking action to see you more, take the relationship to the next level and commit to you.


He will fall in love with you, sometimes gradually the more you use these communication techniques, sometimes fast, alternating powerful surges of love and gradual progressing of falling in love.


The more you use these techniques, the more the intensity of your man’s love for you will be.


These techniques are all about communication. You won’t have to change anything about yourself or who you are. You won’t need to dress any differently then you already dress. You won’t need to spend any money on new wardrobe, makeup, or hair extensions. None of that!


These techniques have nothing to do with your looks or your level of beauty. They have nothing to do with money, your possessions, your clothes or your makeup. They have nothing to do with your education, job, or your national origin.


Any woman who uses words to communicate with others can do this! And it works for every woman regardless of her age, her hobbies, her interests, or anything else!


These are time-tested strategies and techniques I and my private coaching clients used very successfully to connect with men and to make men fall deeply in love with them. A number of clients who have used these exact techniques are already married to the men of their dreams. Others are in wonderful relationships headed toward marriage.

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If you want, you can even make a man obsess with you, but please use these techniques responsibly, without harming anyone!.


I have tweaked and tested these strategies and am about to present you the best ways you can use them, the most effective words and phrases to say to your man to make him fall in love with you, and the best and most effective times you should say those words.


I have put all of these strategies into a downloadable book AKA e-book which you can download instantly right from this page!



Introducing: “The Ultimate Secrets

To Love Inducing Communication” Guide

  A Complete Guide to Making a Man Fall In Love
Through Easy-to-Use Communication Techniques


Here are some of the things you are going to learn when you download this course (delivered to you in a form of an electronic book AKA e-book):


Two male qualities men desire in women they fall in love with - page 22


Why men you are not attracted to chase you while men you really want pull away from you – page 23


How to discuss the future of your relationship with a man and where it is going and whether you should bring up the serious talk – find out the truth! - page 26


How to tell if the guy you are dating wants to be your boyfriend – page 36



How to make your man so addicted to you that you won't be able to get rid of him – page 12


How to tell your relationship is serious with a 100% certainty and how to make your man feel that YOU ARE SPECIAL to him – page 96


The only way to establish intimacy and deep emotional connectionpage 73


How to use a man’s most developed Natural Instinct to make him fall in love with you and love you more and more each day (this has nothing to do with sex!) – pages 94 - 98


The biggest reason we fall in love with one person and not another – page 93


Specific techniques and strategies to encourage him to commit to you all on his own – pages 82 - 85


The best way to mesmerize any man from the very first time he meets you – page 11


How to establish CONNECTION with a man like no other woman ever did before – page 12


How to make a man want to call you and see you all the time without you having to sit by the phone, call him or ask him out – page 66


The real key to communicating your feelings – without this you can’t build EMOTIONAL CONNECTION with your man and when you don’t have a real emotional connection, your relationship is doomed to never be more than casual dating – I will teach you the secret key to  unlocking the path to DEEP CONNECTION and connect to your man’s heart LIKE NO OTHER WOMAN – page 73


The best way to establish a rapport and an instant connection with a guy – page 9


How to get the love of a man who is presently ignoring you or only wants to see you casually – page 66


When you should and should not tell him you are in love with him – page 73


The one and only biggest secret to KEEPING A MAN forever – do this and he will ALWAYS come back to you no matter what - page 66


The man’s biggest desire and need that a woman needs to fulfill for him in order to make him see you as The One and Only – page 10


The only sure fire way to make any man fall in love with you – page 64


Ways To Improve Your Most Powerful Love Generating Tool – pages 14 - 16


What to say to him to make him addicted to you – page 12  - Be very careful with this tactics and only use it if you are convinced that you want him around at all times


The true key to a man’s heart that every man wants to give to a woman he is with but very few women will take – page 8


How women irreparably damage a budding relationship by conveying the wrong message erroneously when in fact they are trying to convey a completely different message, how easy it is to screw up a relationship by saying what you want to say in a way that sends an unintended message, and what to say instead – pages 54 - 55


How to talk to a man about commitment – page 79


One thing you must do to make your man commit to you – page 80


One thing a man must know in order to commit to you – page 81


Specific techniques and strategies to encourage him to commit to you all on his own – pages 82 - 85


How women unwittingly give way too much power to men and how to REGAIN CONTROL – page 102


How to communicate with your man to get what you want from him – pages 27 – 32


How to make a man stop doing things that hurt you – pages 33 – 35


How to use texting and instant messaging to deepen his love for you – pages 91 – 92


One communication style that makes men pull away – pages 106 – 109


The biggest destroyer of a committed relationship – page 99


Hypnotic techniques to make a man fall in love with you through communication – pages 86 – 88


3 words to say to a man to make him fall deeply in love with you – page 71


5 effective techniques to make a man fall in love with you though communication – pages 39 - 51


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